I know I am one of more than a handful of women that will NOT be reading 50 Shades Of Gray.
I know this because I asked my facebook friends and most of the ones who replied said they were not reading it, some with a resounding NO!
I am not against this book, or any book for that matter. I read a few of the Cinderella series in the 90's when I was in my early twenties, and I am certain they are along the same lines.
But the difference is this. I am a lot a little older, and I have two teen or almost teen daughters.
The perspective makes me realize that I am into heavier kinds of books. Not that I don't love a cheesy "Chick lit" once every two or three books. I do. But I also want to use reading to make my mind a more fertile place. And, I am fighting the fight all parents face, which is how soon to let my daughters mature. PG-13 is still up for discussion. And so, it is hard to make the argument that a movie about teenage "hooking up" is not suitable when I am reading a book about bondage and using sex as a weapon. Pure in heart and mind is how I am trying to raise them. It's a hard enough road without adding my own stumbling blocks.
So, I am not reading it. Plus, I think the fact that it is being referred to as a"grown up Twilight" is reason enough for me. I wanted to strangle Bella when I read those books to make sure they were okay for my daughter. But as it is everywhere and comments about it run rampant on Pinterest and Facebook, I am sure I will be having a discussion about it very soon.
Instead, I am continuing on with my list.
Happy Friday. Hope you get to do whatever you want, especially if it is reading a book.
In the words of Louisa May Alcott:
" She is too fond of reading and it has turned her brain."
" She is too fond of reading and it has turned her brain."
The List of Books, 2012 edition
(edited)
- Unbroken
The Hours- All the Devils are Here
- Boomerang
- Sarah's Key
- The Sound and the Fury
- Ulysses
The Omnivore's Dilemma- Middlesex
- Bossypants
The Grapes of WrathIn Defense of FoodThe Poisonwood BibleThe Paris Wife- The Pillars of the Earth
- Kisses From Katie
What the Dog Saw- Wuthering Heights
Steve Jobs- Atlas Shrugged
True Prep- A Simple Path
- In the Garden Of Beasts
- The Complete Idiots Guide to Understanding Islam
- Jane Eyre
- Stern Men
- Van Gogh: The Life
- Wolf: The Lives of Jack London
Salvage the BonesDelta Wedding
I'm not reading it because those images will stay in my mind forever and I'll never be able to shake them. However, a good friend of mine read them and she said it really helped her sex life with her husband improve. She learned some stuff.
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